The problem with relationships is things always get complicated. People want kids or want to move in together or get married. Why can't things just be simple. I mean at 21 i want to go out clubbin, go out for dinner, some nice dates, maybe a relationship that is slow and easy without all that deep and heavy i love you shit 1 week in. I don't want to talk about futures and families and movin in, i don't know what i am doin 2moro let alone in 2 years. I wanna live for the weekend and want someone who wants to live for it with me. God i have ranted on a little bit (just a little i hear you cry!) so i will leave with:

Anyone who agrees even partially with what i say and fancies a chat or a drink send me a message. If you disagree send me a message i am open minded to suggestions.

Work to Live Don't Live To Work

Much Love
Ollie x[/quote]

i was the same at 21 a (little older now) but know what you mean buddy hope you find the drinkin partner

It's not just when you're young that things can be heavy 'cos I'm at the other end of the spectrum and find that many men are looking for that serious relationship rather than being part of a social group to go out and do things with.
I love going out for dinner, walking in the countryside going down the Broads on a boat, sitting on the beach chatting, or to the cinema but I've got no desire to be a housewife...... I'm not domesticated, I hate most household tasks and would rather be doing something more exciting than 'keeping house' or being somebody elses slave.

Fair play mirrorpool. Know who you are and what you want and dont change it for anyone.

If you meet your ideal partner you wouldn't have to change would you? Otherwise they wouldn't be your ideal partner.
Unconditional acceptance....... that's truely a difficult one for most folk.

I have very little idea what I'm looking for. I think it's best to just have fun and see where it leads, these days. It doesn't pay to start worrying about jobs and mortgages too early on!!

Romantic love - well it is out there, but times have changed..... If you don't change with the times, then you sink rather than swim!!

Simon

iv just come out of a long relationship and want some fun, message me

xx

See.. well i think thats a load of rubbish.. well to a degree, you obviously not met the right person, because as soon as you do, you cant help but makes plans and look to the future, you cant help but want to plan doing things together, other social aspects kinda just get left on the sidelines

I am nowhere near a ''housewife''.. but id like to think that one way i will sort of fit into that roll, i mean yeah u can iron ur own shirts nd that,.. but its nice to feel wanted i supose. but everyones got their own way

When i meet someone i can help buy fantasise about getting married etc, only if ur serious about that person, isnt that the point!!??.. otherwise ud never go anywhere..

Lol i dont mean in some bunnyboiler way, im no where ready for all that 'seriousness' but.. it must cross ur mind.. not every girl you meet, especially the right one will try to tie you down, the right one will do things at your pace, eachothers pace..