Im 25 n most of my friends hav babies, im under pressure to settle down but find that most of the guys left jus want no strings fun!! But im still unsure of whether vi even want to settle down yet. jus wanted some advice really.
thanx guys xx

Hi there blue4u! Not sure there's an easy answer, but what you do has to be for yourself and not to match up to where your friends are at.

If you find some new single mates to go out with, then you may feel clearer about whether you really want to settle down too. It may be that if you split your time between your friends and their babies and some new friends who enjoy being single you'll feel less pressured.

The web provides a good starting point for meeting new people of both sexes for friendship, and having friends enables you to meet others, even your Mr.Right when you're ready.

I got one of my best mates from a noticeboard in a newsagents....... it was the best thing I ever got in a shop and I didn't even have to pay for it! but I was in a new area and all the people I knew were couples so I was just looking for single people for socialising.

Myriad's advice is sound. You're plenty young enough yet: if you're not ready to settle down, then don't. If you meet the right guy and want to settle down with him, then great but until then, don't settle for Mr Ok or Mr Not Too Bad just because your friends are settling down.

The same goes for 'no-strings'. I'm not into meeting a woman just for love then never seeing her again, it's just not something I'm comfortable with. It's perfectly fine to feel that way so don't feel you have to sleep with someone just because you like them or because your mates say you should.