Can someone please tell me what is wrong with being a 56yr old male heterosexual. Surely not every lady is after '40 or under males' or are they ?????????.

Definitly not mate, it just depends what you are looking for in a person.

Don't worry too much mate im 26 and havent had much luck with ladies.

Everyone needs some love and to love mate, stick in there and stay positive, also keep your mind wide open that you proberbly (depending on circumstances) have more chance finding someone outside of the internet than on it. but who knows ay, good luck!

Don't worry about your age. First thing to do is sort yourself out a photo. That'll get the replies rolling in. Mark your photo so that only members with photos can view yours. Then just contact some of the friendliest, kindest-looking ones !

Thanx for the replies as I was starting to think this was one of those sites that are no longer in use.
The reason I have'nt posted a photo is because I know a couple of ex's use these sites and I don't want them giving me a hard time in cyberland as well as the street.
What I'm after is a build up in a relationship whereas everyone I seem to meet locally think they are nearing the end of their shelf life and are desperate for total commitment from the off.

There is nothing wrong with your age i promise you.
I prefer men older than myself. So look me up if you want XX