I was wondering what people thought an ideal first meeting/date would be?
A coffee in a public place, a quiet drink, a pub, maybe a meal, cinema or something else...maybe an 'activity date' (ie water sking or learning to drive a 4wd vehicle)?
I appreciate all of the safety issues involved but just curious?
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A coffee in a public place, a quiet drink,
in a pub is where I start, also a nice meal is good just make sure you let someone know where you are & get them to ring you during the date in case you need a get out excuse

(at the age of 23, i believe i have never been on a date)

but i think the quiet drink option is a good idea.. i like to try and figure out someones music taste so maybe a nice bit of window shopping to get them into some music shop and see what they run too..



i'm a big fan of the simple things so i'd prolly wanna just sit by the sea with some chips and a smile.. that sound good?

Exactly...........you cant, if thats all they're interested in then they are not worth it...

'I used to do this for my friend, then one night she was on a first date with a guy miles away, but in a public place for a meal......BUT then she rung me to tell me the fella had told her he murdered his wife! She gave me a website addy and sure enough it was true'

that is a scary situation.. i once pretended to be my friends boyfriend so she could get out of a date, i just sorta shouted down teh phone and sorted angry.. screaming 'women! come home now!' i'm far to dramatic for my own good i think