Hello all ... i'm in falmouth ... there must be some nice people on here from cornwall because so far ive only been contacted by men that need help lol !!! so if you would like to chat and you havent got a one track mind drop me a line ..... Cathy xxx

Cathy, welcome to the forums!
You know you can help yourself?
You've put nothing in this post that might give people a clue as to what you are looking for (other than negatives), or what your interests or pesonal attributes are, etc. So edit this and put in something about yourself and the 'nice' people you'd like to meet. Aslo amend your profile so your photo appears here.
Then add some text into your About Me that gives the people who view your profile an idea about you, especially the things you do and don't want.
Don't assume the guys will know!
For guys not in need of immediate 'help', ie guys who are looking for a long-term relationship, something beyond your looks and the fact you are a Virgo will be invaluable. Mostly because it gives them an idea of you as a person, but also it's something to 'hang' the important first message on. They want you to read that and respond favourably - so you have to help them.
Otherwise, it's going to be more of the same:
'Fancy a quick shag?'
or
'I'm a Virgo too, but I did have a relationship once... when I was 8.'

BTW - Don't forget you can block any people you don't want to hear from again.
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hi im phil in truro get in touch

im not looking for that one thing jsut friends and a relationship i live in bideford devon near cornwall
moved back here from after 9 years in america
not the type of guy to go out looking for aimless love