I'm a nice 30 yr old single mum.

I've been single almost 8 years now and no matter how many dating sites i've been on and how many messages i send i cannot find any nice guys who don't simply want a one nighter (not interested in all that)

I don't get out dancing as much as i'd like so the whole dating scene seems to have left me wayyyy behind and now i don't know what i'm supposed to be doing lol

I'm looking for a friendship to start with then see where it leads. Years ago it was so easy to find lovely blokes to banter with and see where it led but these days all guys seem to be after is one thing.

Mind you my last two relationships were with said nice guys and both ended up cheating on me lol

hmmm Am i being too picky? and Where are the nice guys? are they all taken now lol

All the nice guys live down here in Essex. Well, i know a couple of us that do.

Maybe your looking too hard for someone ?
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Awww maybe i should move dawn sarf then lol

tbh my m8s say am not looking hard enough lol I just think their all lucky buggers - they can say hi to a guy n be dating them within days - i say hi to a guy and he does a runner lol

Maybe they know somet i dont eh

I have friends that stay in Colchester too

Depends how old a guy you are looking for is.. most guys in their 20s only have one thing in mind...
but not all are like that (however, most are)

true - but some women are in there dirty 30's.

theres nothing wrong with u .. u just met wrong guys
if u want 2 go for a drink and have a gd time just drop me a line

if you really want to start a friendship with someone before you take it to another level, then surly the thing to do would be to join clubs that are based around things that interest you, finding guys in these clubs would give you common ground, where friendship flourishes, dont go looking for "MR RIGHT", or as some people call him "MR RIGHTNOW" do what you say you want to do, go out and find people with similar interests, forget about dating for a while, go out and enjoy yourself doing things you really enjoy.... you never know what will happen. and if nothing happens... have you lost out on anything... no... you just spent time enjoying yourself... its a win win