Is it possible for a woman to have a shag buddy and not be classed as a slut?

Out of all curiosity... does a guy think of any less of her then?

I would think better of her if she had a shag buddy, at least that way she is more in control of the situation rather than shagging different folk every weekend, she is able to chose the person she wants to be with, Women have needs and desires as well as men.

It is an impossibility to have a shag buddy and keep them as such.

I have done it. one person gets attached and eventually hurt when the other person isnt interested as much as they are.

No no no.

Recipe for disaster if you ask me.

IMHO it is possible!

I have my women in germany - she come over in approx 2 years and she know and want that I have a shag buddy.

In case I have also a few women in germany there is no problem for us both.

The problem is, that most of these shag buddies wanna have more than that - so look for a buddy who has a relationship ... I think that a guy who is into a relationship never will call you a slut for that.

btw I will enjoy and have fun ... nothing more!!!
So why I should think less of a women in this case??

Robert

as long as one off doesnt get all sagging and start falling in love it would work i wouldnt think any less of a girl for it either she justs knows what she wants thats all and nothing else

marry buddy are fun, its just love nothing more.. and it works

I wouldn't think any less of a women if she just wanted love as long as both parties fully understand the situation and use appropriate protection. If it works for them then wonderful but it's not for me, love isn't massively important to me and I do tend to get attached to people especially when sharing such intimate moments. So I stay well clear of those situations!

I had one for 5 months last year & I didnt get attached at all, but decided it wasnt for me so knocked it on the head....not sure I want to do it again tho

who cares, so long as he's a good shag

I had a shag buddie for 12 years - yes 12 years , i suppose we did get fairly attached and it was great but its now ended ( hence me being on here )me being a toyboy her older - time passing etc .

Shag buddies are great as long as you know the limits and have respect for each other, i learnt a lot from her and we will remain good friends.

would never think any less o a lassie but you need to be careful no 1 gets attached if so you knock on the head then an there! x

no not at all everybody needs to enjoy love. im available by the way for a f buddy lol let me know

I think if it's going to be a successful situation, you have to be fairly certain this is a girl you never want a relationship with, otherwise your heart can take control without your head realising it.

Best to take these things easy, try not to spend too much time with them outside of the buddy situation......easier said than done though lol