i think if anyone is confused just be patient....it all comes together in time, if you are sad and lonely like myself (maybe just desperate) and have tried a few dating sites then dont forget they are all totally different lay outs and stuff....i was confused...once...so i tried dating men...yuk!!!!

wheres that lovely vixen lady i spotted?

think im getting the hang of this...

Haha don't worry I know exactly how you feel but hey everything usually sorts out (atleast I hope lol)