Now I have been on this site for a while and I do try every so often but as it seems with the norm that if I am to message someone I can guarantee that they will look at my profile briefly and not respond.

Now I try to be light hearted with what I say; I try to get a conversation started make a small joke if you will. Now Id imagine anyone with at least one brain cell could gather that messaging someone on this is a lot harder than talking to someone in person. there's no atmosphere, no instant reply and it's easy to ignore somone so you'd think logically speaking that people would try to develop conversations on here to get to know people as it seems like the best form of action. However that is never the case.

Apparently you can gather everything from a person with a simple introduction which is quite remarkable an ability and one I would be impressed to see in our justice system. But yet it is growing obvious here that Im being sarcastic and that the true reason is appearance counts for FAR more than anything else to people. Of course people state they want the nice guy and that they want the guy not obsessed with love however they forget to mention that how he looks is far more important and if you're not in this department then sorry buddy. And Im saying this knowing full well I am not an attractive person (no need for sympathy I think it's very clear at this stage) and this really isnt something I can fix (genetics are funny like that) so by this logic I am not "deserving" of the smallest of chances so to this Id liek to say can we please cut the bullshit?

There's no point posting that you're wanting specific things when they mean very little. This is a rant but it's a rant to say Ive given up all hope and this world is full of shallow people who refuse to acknowledge people like myself as human. Cheers.

I feel ya mate.

Hey bro if I can get women you should have no problem.

Even the best looking guys get shot down.

You can't give up though. To many fine women out there that want you. You gotta keep trying. There are alot of sights you can visit

I've been flown all over the world by ladies (ok 2 ladies but thats alot for me! and had a few visit me - ended up marrying one of them)and I would probably be the last one picked at any party if picked at all.

When you feel bad just say 'marry it' - smile - and keep on truckin'

Good luck brother

is everyone feeling like this?

I don't remember EVER stating that I wanted a nice bloke. To be fair, if a lady doesn't want to speak to you, thats her wish. Would you rather she led you on, then told you she wasn't interested? Thats the great thing about the internet, no false hope.

Christ, if this isn't a cry for help I don't know what is.
The philharmonic will be playing your tune in a few moments.

life's a bitch, then you meet one, get on with life and keep well away from the soap.

Stu

What women say they want & what they're attracted to are two completely different things... Looks are less important to women than your attitude though, but I guess it's harder to project that with photos & text. Devil may care attitude will get you everywhere bro. When I stopped giving a marry, that's when I started getting somewhere with the opposite love.

yeah man I get no luck either. Problem is there are waaay too many of us dudes trying to get chicks and there's like half as many chicks. Also, when you have to pick between a bunch of people who you don't really know, sure maybe you think personality is the most important, but the fact is you don't know any of their personalities. They only know what we look like and the fact that we said, "Hey what's up? BLAHBLAHBLAH". So who are they gonna pick? 9 times out of ten the better looking person. Why? Because that's the only thing they have to compare us with is our looks. It's easier in real life than on this site. Because in real life if you can see a chick through school or work a few times a week for a very long time, you don't even have to have moves. All you have to do is say hi ask her how shes doing and such. Maybe some conversation will happen now and then. But as long as she keeps seeing you, and you just stay noticeable in her life and your not a creep, then she'll probably end up liking you even if you're ugly. The trick is to stay normal, stay aloof, be funny if you're funny, and remember to show her you care by asking how she is. If you can make her feel good about herself when she's around you then you've got it made. Cheers mate

but yeah that's all theory i have no luck really lol i can never pick up chicks. so maybe don't take my advice. although it does work sometimes but only with chicks i don't like

Y'all deluded. That is all.

Prove me wrong then.

Well as much as guys feel this way, I also feel like this. Where have all the true men gone.

yeah ..i know how you feel mate...

and if they do talk to you they want money after a few weeks. for there internet or a sudden holiday..

it sucks these scammers.

and i love some of the girls fake profiles. with the hijacked facebook pics.

it not just here. also match.com

watch out for the south africa and russians

keep tryin

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