I want them to send me a message lol

Really though, just to be themselves. Have a laugh and enjoy themselves.
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Healthy, who cares?..... Pork away!

I wanna meet a gouchy Glasgow girl,I think,not been in a relationship for a few years,not totally sure if a relationship is what I need,any advice?

personally just a woman who is shy kind and likes the quiet instead of loud clubbing

in a nut shell, this is what i look for in a woman if i'm concidering a serious relationship.

1. emotional stability...this is the most important quality in a woman. Everyone has good and bad days but if ur going off the rails over little things or have issues in ur life that are causing instability then most guys won't take you seriously.

This isn't a 'baggage' thing but a case of trust. how can someone trust to invest their love in someone whos feelings change so frequently.

2. caring and nurturing...the occational selfless act can go along way. guys tend not to get this kind of behaviour off anyone other than their partners or maybe their mothers. little things like cooking dinner for you and ur fella shows you care about him and not just urself.

3. Communication... Got to be able to talk to them about anything or everything and be on a similar wave length. without good communication relationships break down fast. To be a good lover one must be like a best friend too.

and all of these things i expect from myself aswell. it works both ways.

Interesting question this, hear it all the time.

chillmyster's post above has some good advise, to which I would add that the main thing is not to focus too much on what other people want. Doing this can become too distracting from actually being the sort of quality person that people will want to be with.

Concentrate on maintaining and developing your own positive qualities and you will attract the sort of people who share and value those qualities/interests/beliefs/etc.

The old saying about being true to yourself is valid for a good reason!

Ok Lads
What goes on in our heads .......
Mundane shit like washing etc
fantasies of a Man who really does care actions louder than words....

Someone who thinks we are shit hot in every way

......HEY wheres everyone gone ?????????????

Men want truth and honesty from women

Pretty interesting to hear what some of you guys look for...... *gets her lil black book and starts taking some notes*

Try honesty and reliability huni with a good all round bit of respect for each other, and loads of fun in bed and out, but most of all loyalty

check this out, you won't regret it (sorry for the quality though)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffk00ULeEEM

and to be honest, it differs from man to man. but I would like to say one thing that most women don't know. we do actually want attention and care like you.