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16.03.2010, 15:20 quote

candy0344
Joined: 03 Mar 2010 Posts: 10 Location: United Kingdom, England, East Yorkshire
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i like someone .... not on here, but a police officer who called around to see me about an incident, he is Calli back round in a few days time to let me know how things went. but i think h is nice, and would really like to get to know him. dont get me wrong.... im not ringing my own bell or anything, but i have never had to make the first move..... and i wouldn't know how to let him know i really like him without going red.... PLEASE! IF YOU HAVEANY SUGESTIONS I WOUD LOVE YOUR ADVICE!!!!
I WILL KEEP YOU IFORMED ON HOW THINGS GO... Embarassed

 

16.03.2010, 17:27 quote

s6boystu
s6boystu Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 3122 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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give him your phone number ? Very Happy
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17.03.2010, 16:08 quote

candy0344
Joined: 03 Mar 2010 Posts: 10 Location: United Kingdom, England, East Yorkshire
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so if i ask a friend who also knows him, to give my number and tell him to say i like him....that would be ok? or shoulhi just wait until i see him again and give him my number or as him if he would like my number????should i ask him if he would like to go for a drink sometime?

 

17.03.2010, 17:30 quote

whysoserious1983
whysoserious1983 Joined: 31 Mar 2009 Posts: 3714 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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Just ask him if he'd like to go for a drink sometime. seriously the best courseof action is the direct one, though don't sound desperate.
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17.03.2010, 22:35 quote

englishgent1981
Joined: 06 Mar 2010 Posts: 55 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Agree. If you feel confident enough to ask him if he wants to go for a drink sometime then say it. If he then says yes, yo can give him your number.

If however, you miss the opportunity because 'the timing doesn't feel right', then give your friend your number and get her to give it to him.

In either scenario, if he's interested, he'll say yes. If he's not interested, then you've lost nothing. Good luck!

 

21.03.2010, 15:52 quote

elmoldn
elmoldn Joined: 16 Mar 2010 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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might be a tough one reason being he wont be able to form personal relationships whilst working, could get in alot of trouble for it even if he does like you

 

22.03.2010, 18:41 quote

jasongyori
Joined: 09 Nov 2009 Posts: 34 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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evening all hello hello hello whats going on here!!


im calling for back up.


ask him if hes an electrition if he says why?


say because you sent a spark through me when you walked in the room !

 

26.03.2010, 01:04 quote

taomaster2010

Hi Candy,
Just stumbled over your post and could not suppress a smile. It seems like it hit you left right and center and you don`t know how to react. Well, you know that`s kinda normal but the real fun has only begun. You know we guys are kind of shy, especially the ones who wear uniforms and seem so macho. It is more insecurity and fear of you girls, something which is buried deep and should never show.So what to do? The most easy way is to just tell him that you like him. It sounds blunt but it is the most simple and sincere approach. You might think that you open your defences much too soon but is it not that what it is all about? Would you not like to drop all your barriers, locks and bolts to open up to someone you like very much? You will see his character immediately in the way he reacts. Don`t worry, you will sense it right there and than and it will give both of you the strength and curiosity to continue the game of love or you will see that he is not the one you want to know more intimately. These things are decided in split seconds and all you have to do is give the signal, tell him in so many words to trigger whatever should follow. Be not afraid, you do not loose if you loose but you win all if your story starts to flow the circle of falling in love. Your butterflies are already buzzing! Good Luck!

 
 
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