i've decided what im looking for at the moment is a girl who i can hang round with occasionally, flirt with and have meaningless experimental sex with whenever with no real commitment past maybe friendship.

what im lookin for is a fuckbuddy!

I never had anything like that before, im usually loyal and committed but now im single for the first time in pretty much ever, i wanna give it a go!

anyone whos interested or can give me advice please reply

Bah, you wont find female fuckbudies online.. some do have em over here but, London being what it is (too many men), they take the piss..

Now, if you were to mosy on out to Spain, you'll find its all the rage there. The women actually prefer their shagfriends to be married!

Trust me, its worth learning Spanish for..

Fuck buddies in my opinion are never a great idea. You just end up getting hurt. The reason people have meaningless sex is because they don't like each other enough to date, and are just friends that have nothing decent to say to each other and never know what to do in each other's company.... but that's just a personal opinion... Sex is fun... but just make sure you outline exactly what you want from it beforehand with said girlie.

dude should u find a fuck buddy let me knwhell it would make lif a whol lot easier if u knw wot i mean

Many people arent looking for meaningless sex they are looking to avoid becoming ensnared in meaningless oppressive relationships that are shaped around reproduction and usually result in the loss of one's autonomy and both partners believing and acting as if they owned one another.

Sure there's a 'risk' one might get emotionally hurt trying to arrange a more relaxed and thoughtful way of experiencing intimacy and getting one's sexual needs met but with marriages and long term relationships failing at the rate they are I'd say you're odds on to get emotionally hurt going down the instant happy families route.

With 6.7 billion people on the planet what are the odds of finding one person who is going to meet all your needs forevermore?

Marriage and similar long-term relationships may work for some people but out there in the culture there are a growing number of people who they arent working for and the worst of it is, when the hurt eases up a bit after the marriage collapses they dive right back in again and think it will just take one person to make them complete again and stop them feeling lonely.

It's kinda wrong to bitch back at a named opponent when the problem is more universal , all one really has to say is that the fuck buddy thing has obviously taken off and got a bad reputation on the back of modern romance and marriages not working.

But it isnt a reinvention of the 60's free love vibe , the real 21st century ' fuck buddy ' thing is an ever expanding network of people who are caring , considerate and responsible but just realise that reproduction - given a global population of 6.7 billion - and the traditional way of being together isnt going to work for them.