Hello
Just that i've got quite a few views but no messages :'(.
I say somewhere that i am looking for two things: love OR a relationship (mutually exclusive). Really i'm just been honest here... But maybe i should not approach it like that? (in which case i'd not be honest).
Are some of the photos too bad quality. I had them uploaded from facebook as i don't take photos myself.
Do you find that the above issues might be a problem? Anything else?
I'd like to hear your thoughts.
Merci Beaucoup!

Aww london, thanks for your replies! heeh x

What a cunning ploy to get peeps to view your profile. Beats flashing at Girl Guide fund-raising events I guess...!

no point asking women to fix your profile man . just be you, if they dont get that then , there not the ones for you . online is different its streile no pheromones, no body language or eye contact , so its just your winning charm dude so go with it .

Hey Gallow man. Very true. Online it's very different, verging on frustrating! How can one go about finding some new girl everytime and telling her something original. You'd go crazy. I have at least, but this was way before i joined a few days ago.

Play charming... i still find that awfully cheezy. Even out at clubs, i'm horrible at one night stands. Yet, when i get a girl... cannot shake her off. Let alone saying some words over the net. What does one do here? Contemplate hard on a template that will win girls over and copy/paste to each one? Horrible. How can they live with themselves.
Another option for me would be to put some photos up of me topless (and after a training session, phwoar) which should drive the girls mad... if by topless (and ugly/ill-shapen) male members' guestbooks of this site is anything to go by...

But what would you find like that. A WHORE. I'd given online dating a try because it'd seem that the further you search, the broader teh dip, the greater the chances of finding someone compatible (than if one's everyday walk of life). But MATE... This shit is just depressing now! Soem girls look really cool, and then not to even get so much as a reply. Fucking Shit. Everyone can marry themselves.

Take me with a pinch of salt, please.

straangedays, well, since I've glanced at your profile and don't want to discourage you with silence, please catch these my 5 cents to your money-box:

1. Put there some pic where your face is seen clearely. Face and eyes particulary still hold priority when you meet someone new.

2. Take some kind of shirt on. If you state that you are looking for something more than nice/ONS, one obscure bare-chested photo looks discrepant on that backdrop.

3. Maybe it's worth to determine some of your interests and preferences like music, books, spending of leasure time, etc. Yes, people will hardly pay attention to that, but probably some girl, attracted by your pics (see 1 and 2 paragraphs) will do it.

PS. While your are taking surveys always, please ALWAYS offer respondents some additional neutral answer version which would have been "Dunno" or "Will tell ya later" or "Whats wrong with you, dude?" in your case.

Everything, excepting "PS" is merely my opinion, hence optional to follow.

Good luck to you!
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Hey Adelanteris. Thanks. Yes i had many face photos, a well-thought out description of myself, and a quaint list of interests listed. Shortly after starting this thread i completely changed my profile and the photos. I thought: marry it.

Your advise has nevertheless proved very useful and i will no doubt one day endeavour to take online dating to the limit.

I don't actively own a camera / take photos that too is a problem - the one's from facebook are poor quality. Also, my interests are v bizarre. I find that i lose my head that extra bit more every passing day. The cheeziness (whatever one wants to call it) of this site makes me sick.

Thank you so much for your time and honesty. I'll also bear in mind about what you said of the survey.

hello, straangedays, you don't need high resolution photos for any site, what demandeded is any mobile phone with cam, sunny day, your positive mood and some mate to go out with you!

I hope that will help you
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Hi. Yes, that has helped me a helovalot thank you. Where i am it's currently 34 degrees and it's all sun. But i took some photos from the webcam of my office machine and am now patiently waiting for flirtbox to accept them.

I don't have any mates. V sad.