Ok, I've been lurking here for a while now so I thought I should start to fuly contribute to the forum community.

So here is my attemp of starting a discussion. I'm starting this thread as about 80% of the messages I get are from guys who obviously just want no strings attached sex which is a total turn off. No where in my profile does it say this is what I want so it's a bit annoying. It's not really a huge problems, I just get used to pressing the delete button

However with that in mind I do rate sex very highly on my list of priorities when it comes to relationships. If the sex is not good I always struggle to maintain the spark in a relationships. I promise I'm not shallow, it's just important to me!

I was thinking a lot about this and I was wandering how important sex was in a relationship to others?

/* runs into the room */

Did I hear someone mention sex?

well considering I haven't had sex in like 3 years, its not important to me, but I guess in a relationship it is important.

I've had my shre of 50 year old nymphos asking me if I can travel though...im like '' I am 18...why would I possibly be interested in some who is old enough to be my grandmother? ''

Its makes me laugh so it isnt to bad...=]
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If I get one more message from 46 year old women asking how I kiss girls with and I quote '' that shit in your lips '' I think I may go postal....>_<

i love sex =D good for the soul and the balls

it's like oxygen its only really important if your not getting any,

srsly tho it can be a boon to many relationships, and a lot of fun, carnt say ive chucked someone for it, but most would be would be willing to learn if it benifits both of you

No matter if you mention it or not, they'll take it as you're here for sex unless you highlight your preference.Its not just you, 90% of all experience such annoying proposals.

sex is important indeed but there are other aspects of life too.Honestly, everyone enjoys sex even me too but I just don't prefer to contact strangers for NSA fun thats the point most don't understand.

Sex can make or break a relationship if two people have very different ideas, preferences and 'urges'
Sex may not be the most important aspect of a relationship, BUT if either person doesn't feel fulfilled or able to express themselves sexually then the relationship can go downhill pretty fast.

Everyone needs sex know and again, so i would say quite often but not all the time.

Its important ..girls never stick around with guys that can't use their member right..

I drilled (new) hole into my bed. I named "Britney Spears"
now,all I need is a aftermath cleaner. and good cup of coffee
does anybody think that we really need sex?
I do it every day..... with my new "love"....

Wot a looser.. lol
Did u Dig a hole in ur pillow as well ??