Having only just signed up, I'm still debating whether or not to post a photo, or to maintain a slight air of mystery about myself and leave it blank. Sure, showing a photo might increase my chances of being approached, but, personally, I'd rather be approached for my personality than my looks, as that's what I look for in return

Cue numerous comments referring to me as a "munter" etc, etc, etc.

seems a bit odd to come on a dating site and slag off the very people you hope to date! still, love the attitude, feisty if a little dim.

ok must say lookin at guys heads well doesnt really float my boat but ja guys seem to think a female is rather stupid.......but here where i come from some females think the naked pics and funcky dating sites (example date n shag) are erotic and love it so i guess you got to check out who u talkin to and make the judgement ther after

The hope is that people won't waste your time with deliberately misleading pics, but that IS a risk you take on a site like this. If you don't like it, I guess you could try living in the real world Then perhaps you might find guys who really are that hot.

i do fully agree with all the comments on this subject but in my opinion if a woman has a low cut top in her pic that to me is still tasteful but when you can physically see that the female is pulling her top down or laying in her bra, its tasteless and to me it show that all she will end up with are men that dont treat them right (the ones they complain about) and in respect of men, if he is wearing a top thats designed in a certain way then its fine (vest) but when they pose topless it does nothing for women, both sexes like the feeling of believing they are the only person to see their partners bodys (its got a lot to do with intimacy) and thats also why some sexes dont like the fact their lover is friends with an ex.

lol I agree why put a picture that is just not urself, if we do meet up it will be just slightly obvious if ur not a 6' adonis with blonde hair and a little weasle turns up !! lol

I really see no point in pretending to be some supermodel, but how bad is the 'younger age' thing? My picture was randomly taken by a professional on my prom almost a year ago, and I've grown pretty long hair since then. Would you advice me to update with a newer picture?