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16.03.2009, 21:08 quote

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amantes wrote:
I really see no point in pretending to be some supermodel, but how bad is the 'younger age' thing? My picture was randomly taken by a professional on my prom almost a year ago, and I've grown pretty long hair since then. Would you advice me to update with a newer picture?

Don't listen to Ed, keep your locks and let us have a look at the new you and up date asap Razz In this day of crops and bald heads, it's refreshing to see a guy with hair at a playful length!

 

19.03.2009, 05:45 quote

sweetheat
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mirrorpool wrote:

OK, the reality is that the average male might not find this distasteful, but on the other side of the coin such provocative photos might lead one to assume that such women are 'easy'. Having perused such profiles, it is hardly surprising that some women receive lewd and suggestive messages through Firtbox, especially when added to the weight of their coarse and crude posts on the forum (if they post on the forum, of course).


Bah humbug! Men have to take responsibility for their own lewd and suggestive reactions to women regardless of what profiles show... especially when the man is the one initiating the contact!!!
Your big words don't hide the real subtext of your message, pebbles, which is "she was asking for it" That's not an attractive attitude in any lady's books.

As for the mixed messages women give with their pics vs. profile blurb, is it really surprising that women feel the need to highlight their bodies in their profiles when they're living in a world where looks are all that matters? Maybe they're confused about what they should show of themselves. The same goes for men who post obviously fake pics of themselves.

Oh, and to answer the op's question: men assume women are as smart or dumb as they are, themselves. So if you feel the profile is an insult to your intelligence, just walk away! That's what I do.

 

19.03.2009, 12:18 quote

brianred
Joined: 18 Mar 2009 Posts: 10 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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phoebe71 wrote:
apologies for ranting, but its such an insult to our intelligence when men, quite obviously put up a photo of someone they are not.
pretending to be a male model, for instance just getting a photo of some random hot guy on google and pretending thats them.
just be yourself rather than pretending to be someone else.
this might be a shock to some of you guys, but alot of us girls actually care much more about whats inside than what you look like!

rant over haha.
x

UT


I don't really see the point in that to be honest. It seems daft to pretend to be someone else on here becuase you're going to get cuaght out anyways if you meet up with someone.

I agree with the last part of you're post in saying girls care about much more than looks becuase i'm not much of a looker myself but it's not stopped me finding nice looking girls in the past.

So stop it fakers. Very Happy

 

19.03.2009, 18:40 quote

abh1supernova

they were there and will be there forever.. fakers.. we have to live with a guy with fake pics or showing off his dingaling or women faking pics or showing off their ASSets Razz (making up for their crippled personality.. maybe) we have to live among them cuz we cant kill them..
so ppl.. lets ignore them and concentrate on the REAL DEALS..
p.s. oh by the way.. ladies with their pics in their lingries are quite a sight (yes yes, guilty as charged, i admit ) Laughing

 

23.03.2009, 20:02 quote

mark0208
Joined: 22 Mar 2009 Posts: 11 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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im not a big fan of internerd dating - did meet a girl a few years back off a site... cant remember the name but it was closed for peadaphillia? anyway she looked ok, she looked very young - but when i met her in london, i thought i was meeting someones granny literally, she bragged on about her chest measurements when we went out, but i need more than just a pair of late dropping lungs! to keep my interest. Anyway dont go by the picture - or those taken from the space station.. if they resemble similar - keep well away they have something to hide!

Ohh conversly this thread could also be named - "how gullable do women think men are" it goes both ways.

cheers

ugly bloke. Laughing

 

25.03.2009, 20:01 quote

andyk234

I agree with the above. I think it's fair to say that there are many dishonest or dodgy characters of both sexes on internet dating sites. Sites like this definitely have some positive aspects, bringing you into contact with a large number of people who you wouldn't otherwise get to meet, which obviously increases the chances of you meeting somebody suited to yourself, but with all the people putting up fake / old pictures or lying about their age etc, and just people who are time-wasters, it does get a bit tiresome sometimes. Still, it works for some and I hope that everybody here finds what they are looking for in some place or another. Very Happy

 

10.04.2009, 10:29 quote

Brian69
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Oh it gets worse than that..
Did you know there are actually more pretend women on the internet than real women exist in the whole world?

 

10.04.2009, 18:48 quote

rossjackson1985
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phoebe71 wrote:
apologies for ranting, but its such an insult to our intelligence when men, quite obviously put up a photo of someone they are not.
pretending to be a male model, for instance just getting a photo of some random hot guy on google and pretending thats them.
just be yourself rather than pretending to be someone else.
this might be a shock to some of you guys, but alot of us girls actually care much more about whats inside than what you look like!

rant over haha.
x

UT


its all relative.. if the woman is stupid enough to think the pics are legit..then she will be treated so...exactly the same for women who put up fake photos and the men who fall for it.

if you are a dumbass..you will be punished Smile

 

14.04.2009, 08:44 quote

metalfan91
metalfan91 Joined: 11 Apr 2009 Posts: 8 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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Brian69 wrote:
Oh it gets worse than that..
Did you know there are actually more pretend women on the internet than real women exist in the whole world?


that is very frightening lol....,
Yeah don't fake because we meet you in person and you lied to us we will just walk away ( well me anyway )




oh and just a note, ive been on here 2 or 3 days and found a girl that lives within 100 miles that is into the same books, movies and music as me, and we have hit it off very well.
<--- happy fella ( havent been happy for some time =] )
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18.04.2009, 11:03 quote

nutured
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That is even better thank Men pretending to be a woman when they are not. If you must table this report publicly many men will tell you that they have been duped by this fraud idiots.

I have lots of e-mails addresses here from women who pretend to be from Uk and when privately I try to know them, they will tell me they are from Russians. While some pest foreign pictures which does not belong to them.
Embarassed

 

18.04.2009, 23:48 quote

bakster
bakster Joined: 18 Apr 2009 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, Wiltshire
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phoebe71 wrote:
apologies for ranting, but its such an insult to our intelligence when men, quite obviously put up a photo of someone they are not.
pretending to be a male model, for instance just getting a photo of some random hot guy on google and pretending thats them.
just be yourself rather than pretending to be someone else.
this might be a shock to some of you guys, but alot of us girls actually care much more about whats inside than what you look like!

rant over haha.
x

UT


Damn. I wish I thought of this. Razz

 

19.04.2009, 23:10 quote

pebblesthedog
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sweetheat wrote:
pebblesthedog wrote:

OK, the reality is that the average male might not find this distasteful, but on the other side of the coin such provocative photos might lead one to assume that such women are 'easy'. Having perused such profiles, it is hardly surprising that some women receive lewd and suggestive messages through Firtbox, especially when added to the weight of their coarse and crude posts on the forum (if they post on the forum, of course).


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Your big words don't hide the real subtext of your message, pebbles, which is "she was asking for it" That's not an attractive attitude in any lady's books.

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There is no 'real subtext', I said exactly what I wanted to say.

If you read some of my other posts you would also see that a) I use 'big words' all the time and b) have frequently applied the same logic to both genders after seeing their profiles. It's quite simple really (and not gender specific) - act like a slapper and one will get treated like a slapper.

 

23.04.2009, 03:08 quote

hungry

That's true guys outward appearance is not all.

 

24.04.2009, 07:51 quote

ceckers
ceckers Joined: 21 Apr 2009 Posts: 8 Location: United Kingdom, England, Hampshire
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Yeah I agree. As for myself I may look slightly different, but I'm proud of who I am and not gonna hide behind a computer screen and pretend to be someone. If only more girls decided to see past looks... love isn't skin deep!

Rolling Eyes

 

24.04.2009, 15:37 quote

jon15
Joined: 25 Sep 2008 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Yeah rite


phoebe71 wrote:
apologies for ranting, but its such an insult to our intelligence when men, quite obviously put up a photo of someone they are not.
pretending to be a male model, for instance just getting a photo of some random hot guy on google and pretending thats them.
just be yourself rather than pretending to be someone else.
this might be a shock to some of you guys, but alot of us girls actually care much more about whats inside than what you look like!

rant over haha.
x

UT

 
 
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