yeah, thats why kadushu and i are great for marriage material... haha

I agree fully its so obvious its sad.

Well i think the reason's obvious... they're just not confident enough.They want to impress women from the get-go which's sad. Being a guy(there's a difference lol) i rather do it the old fashon way... let women do the judging of how i look vs personality... "Friendship first"

My two pence worth:
It's all very interesting as how exactly do women know the difference between who is real and who isn't? What if some poor guy really is a male model and is ignored because his photo appears this way. Also, seeing as many people like to get professional photos done these days, to put on the wall at home or wherever, some photos might look like they're straight from google images "male model", but in fact aren't.
A further point would be that if looks are so unimportant to people that claim this, why is there such a huge discussion about the photos in the first place? I mean, ask for a photo - if the guy really is genuine then he'll send you one of himself, if he doesn't, you know not to continue.
If on the other hand you're simply presuming that the photo is not of that person, then that says more about you than it does about them - from the respect that you're judging them before even giving them a chance. I guess many people want to hide who they are, or at the least dress up the reality - it's obviously a ridiculously bad idea, but some people will always try, and others are not confident about how they look, I mean that's the reason most guys go to the gym! To pretend that everyone's ok with how they look, just isn't very realistic. When I put up pictures of myself, I obviously chose nice ones, I'm not going to put up horrid ones - but I'll send them to someone if I like them and they ask me to, that is not to say that the ones I chose to put up are not of me though, they're merely the ones I like of myself

My rant over lol.

lol, i guess that love sells, and some people want to try and boost a lack of confidence by adding a fake pic, or missing out there face, or hump, or whatever it is they are hiding in their photos, then i am sure eventually, that may float someones boat and love will blossom, and good luck to them.

I want people on here to take me seriously (to a degree), i have only just joined, if i dont get replies from any women then i wont winge about it, or have a little cry into my cereal in the morning... regardless of what anyone says, the first bite is with the eye, so you may have a blinding personality, but no woman is gonna give you a message if you look like the elephant man, or if it looks like you could benefit from a bath, so if a fake picture gets ya foot in the door so to speak, then go for it!

Haha I know just what you mean f1fanatic25 Im 21 and Im still being ided. You may be thankful for your youthful looks in 5-10 years time.

I happen to like seeing the faces of ladies rather than more obvious assets, since you can gauge more about someone from it. Also its always a boon when they actually write something about themselves so you get a glimpse at their personality.

In order to know how people think I like to employ the Karl Popper positivist theory – you interpret the input from your seances as reality thus forming an idea or model of what the world around you looks like, one cannot ask whether this model represents reality only that is works.

Now this may seem a long long shot at human behaviour but in fact its closer than most people think. For instance man “A” we can call him Ponsonby feels insecure about him self this is brought on by a distorted view of him self and fuelled by the desire to look like some one popular e.g. To be honest I am not sure what the ladies like but insert hot man of the moment what ever I am just gana use Beckham, now when Beckham started wearing an alice band all of a sudden every one started doing it and there is a logical reason why, it all boils down to procreation.

You see it in many species where there is a higher arkey and only the most dominant males can mate with the females. So what you find is that many of the lesser males try to copy the alpha male hoping to attract a female on the sly but this is not with out its merits, females with out cubs will some times mate with such males, further more this also insures genetic diversity. This is not to dissimilar to what Ponsonby does when he wears the alice band just like Beckham.

So to lie about ones self, not only works but is an evolutionary trait. So wile this is not the only reason why some one would lie about them selves and thus not an an accurate representation of reality, it is a working model in some cases. So yes not only do some men think woman are that stupid, more shockingly some times it works.

Now I make this in bold because I want people to understand that this is JUST ! An observation. If you want to contest it please do so I would rather be wrong and learn more than be right and ignorant. But please no “because I say so”

On a personal note I think there is nothing sexier than a woman who is smarter than you are and I know this sounds really nerdy but meh I am what I are

Agree. No point faking! It's not fair!

People!!still on this tread?
go and have love then we'll see if you still want to argue......
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whats up with apparently beautiful women only putting a picture up and no text description.

lazy bints

that is all

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forgot my punctuation im a pedant like that