I know it's all been said before, but I am bored and can't sleep, so here we go again.
I am a 22 year old student, got out of a 2 year relationship after being cheated on, and now I am trying to find someone who will care about me.

I KNOWI am not that good looking, but I like to think I am a fairly nice guy, so what is with the practically complete lack of replies?

Come on ladies, give me a chance.

same here ! I can figure it out ...

Don't give up, just make sure you've got an a great opening to your message as there's about 4 women to every man on here so competition can be high.

Just saying 'Hi,how are you?' may not be enough to tempt a response to the popular ladies who get too many messages, to reply to them all---but that's not me. So I answer all mine unless it says '.......if you're interested' 'cos if I'm not, then I won't.

Sometimes their are technical problems that prevent replies from sending out.

probably because you sound and look like a complete bell end

quit whining and man up

Well aren't you lovely. I am sure the women queue up round the block for a chance with you.

Assuming it's just to kick you in the happy sacks.

Think that should be the other way around

Yeah, at present it's 3 men to every woman

But that's only profiles. I suspect there are proportionately more active male profiles than female, so maybe it's more like 5:1
...and then there are duplicate profiles etc etc.

A short guide to creating a dating profile... you've got 1 right at least!

http://www.londondatingscene.co.uk/2009/03/londonstunts-create-date-ing-profile.html

well it's pretty much because of the amount of mail we girls get men tend to have a more i'll take anyone outlook . i try to reply to everyone but it's just not possible .

try and make your messages stand out more.