I've just come out of a 3 year relationship with a girl who wouldn't give my fetish a chance because she thought it was weird and gross (had nothing to do with the break up i shud say)

thing is, i'm totally into girls dressing up for love, like uniforms, lingerie, ann summmers n stuff but especially schoolgirl uniforms.

I can understand that she might have read the pedophilic conotations or whatever n been weirded out, but its really something i want to do with my love life in the future and her unacceptance of it has really knocked my confidence about it.

I'm posting this mostly to ask for advice on how and when or weather to bring dressing up into the bedroom in my next relationship. whats the flirtbox community think?

( <--- i just wanted to use that smiley. whys he shoot his own bullet?:S)

It's not weird at all, I love to dress up, even at my age! make me feel sexy & would think that this can only add to the passion....

I can't say whether or not you should bring it into your next relationship or not, that all depends on the other person, when you do meet someone & you think the time is right just talk to them about it & see how it goes...Good luck

Thanks:D

I agree with L.V, I dont think dressing up is weird at all, it can be alot of fun! As for when to introduce it to the next relationship, that's not easy to answer, it really does depend on the girl you're with. I'd say probably go down the Ann Summers route first, I think most people are into sexy underwear, ect, and then slowly take it further.

good plan thanks for the advice i think ill try it that way in the future

If you said you dress up in womens clothing then yes that would be weird...not knocking it, i just dont want to delve to deep into it as it would be reveling too much about me (interpret that how you want).

For some reason im into cosplay...don't ask me why i just think that is sexy, i don't tend to talk about it in the real world...because i know its weird lol so i keep all that kinda caper to internet only talk.

Ive only met one person from where ive talked to on the internet, she was a cosplayer good fun, but marry you feel so weird giving a false alibi to where you went...i mean sometimes i want to tell people im a freak, but i dont want to be secluded.


God i waffle?

thats odd you say you've only found 1 other person thats into it because i see cosplay all over the internet with out even searching for it!

good luck with finding others who share your fetish tho.

there used to be a group of kids round campus at college who dressed like cartoon characters 24/7 so i don't think your alone.

moopoo32 wrote:

thats odd you say you've only found 1 other person thats into it because i see cosplay all over the internet with out even searching for it! good luck with finding others who share your fetish tho. there used to be a group of kids round campus at college who dressed like cartoon characters 24/7 so i don't think your alone.

Ahh you misinterpreted my "met"
I mean met as in had a meeting? IE: At there house.

Let me guess what you thought of the kids on your campus? "freaks" lol
Kinda the reason why i keep what i do to myself in the real world and only come to terms to my weirdness via the WWW.

I don't think its weird, even I love to dress up for love & I know I'm completely sane.

It enhances your sexual experience & experimenting with new ideas are great.

I can think of much much weirder things than play dress up, dont worry about it dude.

Too right, there's some weird weird stuff out there; a bit of dress-up on the other hand is nothing extreme!

Be proud of your fetish man, 'cos there's nothing to like about boring love! I mean, we only live once and who wants to spend it with the light off, fumbling around like some Victorian prude?

Live the dream

That is sooo not wierd at all its totally hot!! dressing up is fun and makes ones love life more exciting. xxx

Getting the chance to get me dressing up stuff out would be a start!!!!lol
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God No...if it were wierd there wouldnt be so many shops and sites available that sell these costumes! I used to work for Ann Summers and hundreds of couples would buy the 'dressing up' outfits, its all about letting your mind go further and bringing fantasies into the bedroom.

Maybe she just wasn't creative and imaginative enough??

Good luck for next time x

no its not weird at all... we have to dress up like that for work. Its funny lol...