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03.08.2010, 08:57 quote

mafemane
Joined: 27 Jul 2010 Posts: 1 Location: South Africa, Gauteng, City of Tshwane (Pretoria)
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why all girls i wrote to, they dont reply, is it because they like to meet me or what?

 

03.08.2010, 11:05 quote

shystef

maybe all girls you wrote to, are the wrong girls to write too.
Did you read the profiles to see if your what they are looking for....

 

03.08.2010, 12:20 quote

scriptwriter

As a rule of thumb, there are thee key and really brutal reasons why they don't reply to you:

1. they are pig ignorant, ill mannered, time wasting, moronically selfish, childish cretins who were not worth the time of day writing to in the first place. politeness - even in rejection - costs nothing.

2. they are a bogus profile looking for specific stooges to line up either for web-cam love and parting with money at some point, or to marry them, have a child with, then they bin the guy when they have a UK passport and use him for CSA payments whilst they train in childcare, teaching or nursing - on a grant.

3. they have no hands and their nose is too itchy to press the keys with.

 

03.08.2010, 23:57 quote

gallow

i think i'll pick door number one there script i found a lot of women here or very ignorrant . i do bother to read the profiles and questions answers . i think you hit the nail on the head. Manners cost nothing after all .

 

04.08.2010, 05:25 quote

mrmoogly

mafemane wrote:
why all girls i wrote to, they dont reply, is it because they like to meet me or what?


Also, I think not having any pictures doesn't really work in you favour - people generally want some kind of visual idea of who they're talking to. Also have you been messaging girls outside of South Africa? If you have then it's probably also because they'd eventually like to meet up with the people they're talking to on here.

On top of all that though, you just don't get a reply from everyone and it's likely that some of the profiles are fake too.

 

06.08.2010, 05:46 quote

alt73

I don't think there are as many fakes on here as some sites, but that's certainly a possibility. I think people are unlikely to reply if you don't have a photo, and then if you do and they don't find you attractive they still won't reply. I don't think many people are interested in reading profiles, or even bother, but that too can put people off. Just don't let yourself believe you are doing something wrong, chances are it tells you as much about them as it does about yourself.

Having said that, after seeing some dumb comments that people have put on guestbooks, some don't really deserve replies. If people say things that are shallow, ignorant, gushing or just plain creepy then they're not in the position to complain.

 
 
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