ok. here we are.........
in my entire short life I had many experiences, met many people,heard many examples....
I used to be into the swinging scene,for few years...
I met many couples ,ladies....
now,looking sometimes over to the sex request,adverts....
I see many couples( m+f) ,looking for a girl,lady......
the last FB I had we were talking about swinging. and she told me about her experiences: before me, she had few BF wich allways asked for a second girl.... I did thought that it sounds, fair enough... I have seen the pictures of these girls and thought :" what lucky bastards!!!!!!!"
but, when I asked :" but did u ever took an extra guy with u?" , she left her face down, telling that her BF wouldn't accept that....
now...
I look to so many couples advertising.....
and, we all know, that there are many, maybe more ladies that would like 2 men at once than we can see the adverts......
now,many of the couples, talking about "being a couple with a strong conection...." but, nothing about accepting, that She has the same feelings and needs as HE........
am I to extreme,or guys are selfish little profitors?

I think you'll find it's quite a challenge to find two heterosexual men who trust each other enough to work together in a threesome.

However it definitely selfish for a man to be involved in a threesome, with two girls, if he would not reciprocate in providing the reverse - especially if his partner asks for it.

As for me, I prefer to avoid threesomes.

There is no point getting angry about inconsiderate blokes, otherwise you'll be angry all the time.

Instead, provide an alternative.

I think women are more open to the idea than guys because we are inherintly protective of what we believe is ours, and we consider the idea of "our" girl with another man a threat to both our relationship, and manhood. It's easy to say we're less primitive than that, but it's been programmed into us for a few million years now. something similar applies to women, but it's not as strong a feeling so it's easier overcome. that and many men are Homophobic

I dont think that men are any more possesive then women... but lets think about this logically. culturally affection and sensitivity between women is always encouraged, whereas in men it is discouraged- when was the last time you saw two straight men hold hands/kiss/hug in public and not be ridiculed? This is why its much easier for women to be tender to one another, as in society our stereotypical gender role is to nurture and protect.
Also, ffm 3some comes as somewhat as a sexual conquest to men. Women are not encouraged to have sexual ego's the same as men... and to be honest, a women who admits to having 2 men at once is often looked on as a slut and not a stag as her male counterpart would be.

I think dwoodward has nailed it. Society guides people's values and influences their conduct. In evolutionary terms, widely held rules on conduct are relatively new. Emotions have been around a lot longer than the large social, political and religious structures that influence modern living. However, these structures are founded on those primitive emotions, or as a reaction to them, and the gender divide is still prominent in modern society. Most likely it always will be because men and women are different. Western society seems keen on reaching equality, which is good in a way. However, this should be equal respect and equal opportunity, not equal treatment. After all, everyone is different and has different needs and beliefs.

Sorry for straying from the OP there

Men should be kept on a leash...