just happened on this topic, hope you found someone closer to your age.

this isn't aimed at anyone in particular, but typically any guy who want someone with a huge age difference isn't going to be "someone the same as you", thier going to be in a totaly different place and have completely different interests (clubs etc)

probly most likly just wants to take advantage.

most of my past gf have been a year or two max younger, and a lot of the time the maturity or difference in interests was too much..

I totally agree with the want for an older guy .... I think its natural, but I am definately looking for a guy about 10 years older then me or something....

Someone mentioned older guys will try to 'shape' you... well, thats the sort of personality I'm looking for, if you catch my drift...

Haha ... it takes some time to get to that stage you know, but after there is trust, the sky can be the limit.