I'm starting this thread out of annoyance really, I'm fAt( size 22-24) and that's just who I am. It doesn't mean I'm dumb or ignorant or greedy or lazy it means I'm fat. Fat is perhaps the most difficult word for peoe to deal with, when spat out with such venom it's hard to not find it painfull. However I find it easier when I realize the person who needs to resort to such attacks is obviously so thick that they can only refer to physical attributes and can't think of a more intelligent insult. I've rambled a little with this but it was just in my head and needed to be out. Feel free to comment.
Bec

Sorry for the typos, havnt slept fir two days ...getting tired

you're still beautiful.
=]

It's what's on the inside that matters.... Not the outside.... People need to learn to look deeper and past the looks..


regards
Andrew

What an attention seeking pile of self-indulgent shite.

GET ON THE EXERCISE BIKE AND STOP WHINING ABOUT PEOPLE POINTING OUT WHAT YOU ACCEPT IS TRUE, FATTY

ooooooooooooooooooo so harsh...Next time use the spear...lol

The question is Bex...Are you truly happy with who/how you are??
If you are...then whatever people think or say about you shouldn't make any difference to you what so ever..

Personally, I think you're good looking...
But that's my opinion...

If you're happy as you are, stay as you are, if you're unhappy as you are, change.

i love the title.. "i'm over weight.. get over it" i just imagine some one with climbing gear on amd the torch on his helmet...

anyway.. if you are overweight..two things..you are either have something medically wrong with you, then its not your fault... or you need to eat more salad and lies pies.. try walking now and again.. its your fault, get over it.

I love fat chicks xxx

I'm bigger myself, but I have a medical excuse for mine. I go through periods where I lose a lot of weight and look amazing, but then all of a sudden I'll gain it all back and more without changing anything in my diet. I go to the gym 3-4 times a week now and have a pseudo-diabetic diet and I am still in one of my high weight stages. I think that people judge others before knowing all of the facts and it can be rather cruel. There is nothing worse than having people look at you differently than they had a few months before because of your weight. I also think that thin people are criticized as much as heavier ones. People just need to learn to overlook the amount that appears when someone steps on a scale and get on with things.

Sorry, this was a bit of a rant....

RJ,if I read yer message right mate then bugger off and go back to school. :-/
FFS, who the frick would say that really?

I'm not thin myself. I'm not huge but who cares. I've always wondered why people would consider being fat an insult. You know, in some countries, the fatter you are the better, and it's considered a compliment.

Anywho... In relation to the main post, I don't see why people would use insults period. No why they'd use FAT as an insult.

Thing is... Frickers will always be out there. It's like death, how can you deny death? So, unless they've done something really bad to you and you can call the police (knock on wood), you just have to move on and stop thinking about it.

Personally I only care about insults from people I really didn't expect them from, like really close friends. If that happens then it bothers me and I usually cut them off my list, especially if they don't apologize asap.

Insults probably hurt worst when they come from someone you're interested in, but, even then, all you can do is move on.

I know it's hard, but it's really the only option. Just think of it this way: What if you lost weight and people would start callin you anorexic. How would you feel then?

What you are isn't in the eyes/words of others, but in your own. Again, hard to believe but it's really the way it is.

And, as a post scriptum, I for one search for fame and admiration, especially from crowds. I'm all drugged up on them. Sometimes shit happens, as I said before, and I get insults from the people in the crowds. Truth is there'll always be someone who doesn't like you, yer form, yer brain, whatever. It would be weird if there wasn't, then everything would be jus milk'n'honey and we'd be in Heaven. LOL

And although insults should really not be permitted in work environments par example, they still happen. You still have to move on, if you can't frick up the one who insulted you.

As for finding a partner to adore you when you're overweight... Well you can either search for/expect the ones who don't have a problem with that or lose the weight...

And one last thing: When someone decides to insult me in some public spot, I always go like: "Who let this jackarse in? He's been heehawing for ages and I don't understand that form of communication." You can change it lol. I got it from a saying about windmills. Fighting jackarses (unless you're sure you could really frick them up - "I didn't know who you were with lol") is like fighting windmills. You really shouldn't bother, now should you? They'll just keepa blowin.