i just felt that i had to mention something about the women on this site that ive been speaking to...... why the obsession with being stick thin? whats that all about then? most blokes i speak to want a woman with something they can grab hold of for f*cks sake....... not a calorie dodging posh spice/wag/size zero clone....... its such a shame....... any woman larger than a size 12 thinks she's doing a jabba the hut impression and it makes me so sad........ i just started talking to a size 16 woman and she thinks she's massively overweight but i love her curves: real hips, large breasts and a bum that i just wanna grab....... but like most women ive met she wants to lose some pounds....... i feel like saying "oh dont babe not until ive enjoyed your beautiful curves" {hopefully}. where have all the curvaceous confident women gone??? bigger can be beautiful...... any curvy/bigger/cuddly chicks out there with real hips, luxurious breasts and a bit of confidence........get in touch cos i love ya..........oh yeah



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Thanks! great to hear a guy speak his mind for all to hear, I'm a size 22 and only 5'2'' with a 'jelly belly' and if more guys were to let women know how they really feel then maybe more women would have that very confidence the men want to see in their women.
Btw you've missed me, I've moved from London to pastures green in Norfolk!

Oh yes much prefer a witty, rosy-cheeked, buxom, muffin-top beauty than a half-witted, pasty faced, dinner-dodging, lucky legs.

you see ladies..... this fella knows his stuff........ put down your copy of heat magazine and make friends with your refridgerator........ you know it makes sense......

Well what can i say, to at first glance,that seems to be a heartfelt plea to all us 'bigger' girls out there to be happy with ourselves, but please allow me to reply. I am a confident 'bigger' girl, and somewhat unhappy with my body, but even those 'size zero' chicks want to lose some pounds, in fact i would hazard a guess that 90% of woman are unhappy with some part of their body. To be a confident person, thin, fat, black or white, you need to love the person you are inside, so if your self esteem has been knocked for whatever reason, you need to pick yourself up, brush yourself and say to yourself 'f*ck em all'. Whatever you look like, whoever you are, if you are happy on the inside, the confidence will shine through on the outside, i'll get of my soapbox now, but just one more thing, feeling sexy is a must for everyone, feel sexy on the inside and you will feel great on the outside, you just need to find the right person who appreciates you for who you are, and not what you look like
Ann- Marie



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well said........ although im not sure if i quite grasped your point....... was it a thinly veiled dig at me? or another guy? i wasn't sure.........

lmao well said trev. I know exactly what your on about. i have reciently gone from a size 22 to a size 16 and that is what i aim to stay as. i am happy and think i look good, if i lost anymore i would look ill and gaunt, so un-attractive

here here! i think a new website should be established for normal curvy women with luxurious breasts, substantial thighs, hips you can grab and bums you could rest your cafeteria tray on...... because a lot of us fellas wouldnt give a toss for vic beckham, lindsay lohan or any of the other pathetic pouting zombies we are force fed by ok magazine and some of the more low rent satellite channels....... they are trying too hard as well...... i mean take adele silva of emmerdale fame....... she's certainly not a minger but have a look at her...... really look at her she looks so unhappy........ its like every word uttered is an effort and its like all the goodness has been sucked from her and she's just deeply unhappy........ this is probably because she leads a joyless life due to food deprivation...... and f*ck me does it show in every thing she says and does....... so come on girls let yourself have that choc muffin in starbucks......... dont become a glutton who is pulling an ice cream from the freezer every 5 minutes but DO eat properly and revel in your feminine curves.......


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Anyways...as a bloke I dont really get this 'size 12' or 'size 16' thing - from my experience, just with buying jeans for myself, i know that sizing is different from shop to shop, so it's unfair that womens clothes are in 'sizes', arbitrarily decided by whichever is the 'standard model' used by the shop. So I buy what fits. Its gotta be a vanity thing with women to be able to say 'Ooooh I can get in a size 12 now!'....we are all what ever size we are, get used to it.
In my book there is roughly 4 sizes for everyone; Skinny, normal, fat, and morbidly obese. 'Morbidly obese' is the killer, these are the people that need help, buy thier clothes in 'specialist' shops etc.
If you're skinny and don't like it - eat more! If you're fat and you dont like it - eat less. U don't need to be Einstein to work that one out.

im really pleased a sexy fuller figured woman like yourself joined my thread as..... well....... you are the whole point...... and you look great by the way....... actually great doesnt quite cover it....... beautiful.

aww thank you both xx

Woooo hoooooooooooo..............never thought i would see the day when this was said. I applaud you guys.

well its so true and somebody needed to bring it out into the open........... and you know me.......... im not shy about saying my piece...... it genuinely upsets me to see a beautiful woman falling into the "i'm fat" trap......