was so happy when i read this post, after speaking to a few guys in the past most worry more about what there friends will think of a new gf so wont fate bigger girls, and i still dont understand why, follow your heart not what your friends think!

aahhh thiese words warm my heart!
im 16 and a size 12 with pretty big upper half - 34DD, and ive always lacked self esteem about that. I used to see it as an issue and dreamed of modelling at night, i know its not gonna happen but i realise that men dont go for the size 0's now!
Thanks everyone
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Sorry to but in BUT i agree with Dudette fat isnt curves, curves are CURVES people !!!!

And who has the curve measurement rules then? Its an emotive topic... I'm not small, but I like to think someone will appreciate these "curves" .. well some have certainly done that before.

I've been much slimmer in the past, but can't say my love life has ever suffered whatever clothes size I happen to be. And its definitely about confidence in what you wear and how you feel.. I know I'm not going to worry about getting naked with a man I fancy ...now don't all offer at once

I too am a curvy size 14 lady, I love my figure and I have 36D boobs which may I add are still quite pert. I love my body, But I would love to find someone who appreciates my personality and the rest as well as my hour glass shape.
Is he here? If he is, then give me a nudge.

Mate you sound like you've got a chub fetish. If you're just as toxic to skinny girls as most magazines are to "overweight" celebrities, then are you not just espousing an inverted body fascism?

What I'm trying to say is, saying you dig a fuller figure makes you no less shallow than the dudes who exclusively go for tiny waists. You hear me?

I feel that those who have a deeper sense of romance know that whatever our physical preferences, and however these pull us about in the first instance, these desires ultimately succumb to how we connect to somebody on a much more spiritual level, which later absolutely transforms our appreciation of the physical realm.

I'm standing here and waving frantically to all the guys who said they like curvier girls

This thread was made for me...

I've been out with fuller figured ladies and slim ones and I know that the fuller the figure the hotter the fire burns.

It's just more time getting on with having fun and less time worrying about what size you are. How can you go to a decent place to eat and just have a rabbit sized salad and be happy?

Big up the bigger women - they're just so much happier with themselves!