This thread was made for me...

I've been out with fuller figured ladies and slim ones and I know that the fuller the figure the hotter the fire burns.

It's just more time getting on with having fun and less time worrying about what size you are. How can you go to a decent place to eat and just have a rabbit sized salad and be happy?

Big up the bigger women - they're just so much happier with themselves!

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*Edited by LV*

http://www.londondatingscene.co.uk/2009/03/size-zero-is-just-fine-by-jemima.html

Worth a read... a girls view on the size zero stuff

I LIKE THIN GIRLS AS WELL

I feel like there are a plethora of threads reflecting this 'I love fatties' message and I'm just worried about the skinny chicks out there feeling ugly and worthless. It's okay girls, I still love you. All those sexy bones and feminine CURVES. That's right, the shape of a slim lady is also feminine... arguably moreso than a body drenched with excess fat. The men who are saying fat girls are better at love or more horny or whatever - THEY HAVE TO COMPENSATE SOMEHOW. Thin girls are probably lazier cos they expect their looks to do the work. You just haven't fucked the right ones, obv...

I'm a size 8. I'd like to be smaller to be honest, sticks look hot - and I don't feel pressured into that. It's actually about how I see myself and how I would like to come across to other people. You know, not a fat mess?

HAHA.

Is there a difference?

Big, small, tall, short, if what's inside is good, who gives a damn what's on the outside?

i know that this thread is about the fuller figure women. I personally think asa your BMI is not more than 26, you are fine. And not for esthetic reasons, but for the health issues.
In any case, i agree that some women are really cute and sexy with their curves while others look just scary. It all depends on the body type. I have a gf who when puts wt on looks curvier and sexier, while me, if put wt on, look pretty ugly.
But let me just add a line about guys. I have always been dating fit guys and felt a bit awkawrd when added wt with eating and outing. But i recently met a guy who is a bit chubby and i LOVED it. Do i want him to loose wt? Yes for the health issues, but no for the sake of being fit and skinny! I do like the way he is. Now i understand when you, guys, say that you like to hold ON something.
Thank you for starting this thread.

YEAH FOR THE BIG GUYS TOO!

on the other subject though, i don't 'not like' any size. If you are big, so be it. Ignore the bullsh*t about you are not really happy ect. If you are happy, carry on. I smoke, i know it will kill me one day but so might eating to much or riding my motorbike down unlit coutry lanes doesn't stop me doing it.

Personally, its the face i see before anything else (really!) I belive thats where the real (physical) beauty is. Especialy the eyes. maybe thats just me though. Otherwise i am more interested in whats on the inside.

Thats me tuupence worth anyway.
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Healthy, who cares?..... Pork away!

not good being too skinny or too overweight!

I love this subject !! I havent been on here for yonks so i thought id put my 2p in.

As a fuller bust fuller butt kinda girl, i for one am not obsessed with my weight or size. I embrace everything i have. People often say to me, if you were thinner you could model or youd be absolutely stunning.. what right do they have to say that? thats a negative comment with a positive one.. no wonder girls just eat their life away. I look after my body, just cos' i don't run 5k a day.. for one id have black eyes... doesnt mean im not fit. plus bigger girls are better in bed..maybe cos' we have to try harder.. but marry me its fun trying

I'm completely in agreement with the whole thread, I love a lady that's got some meat on her bones and in my opinion a woman is at her sexiest with a few extra pounds.

But at the end of the day it's not the weight that matters, Ok you have to have some looks to get the attention to begin with but a larger lady catches the eye much easier than a skinny runt

I do myself enjoy a lady with a bit of backside.

But size 14 is about my limit.

I don't think there is anyway to get around the 'confidence' issue with looks in the society that we live which is bombarded with 'how we should look' movies/ads/commercials etc etc.

Awh, reading some of these comments has made me feel better. I've lost 2 stone and still not happy, but it's nice to know that there are a handful of men who arent obsessed with the size 0 girls!

I love this thread! I'm a bigger girl, well i'm size 16 and 5'9. I'm so self concious and I hate my body, it makes me more confident knowing that some men like curvier girls!