charming dave you seem like a disarmingly nice fella....... who wrote that poetry? you or someone else?

i must say the response to this post has been disapointing to say the least.......... unless i provoke someone there is just no snap crackle and pop on here is there? i genuinely miss old beardmond cos at least he would come out guns blazing.......... im throwing down the gauntlet: someone read my profile and really slag me off please....... im itching for a bit of fun its like a watching channel 5 being on here...... f*ck all on.



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That is refreshing to hear that you like curvy women.

I blame the bloody media for this obsession with being a stick, all the celebrity start the trends and women tend to follow it which is ashame really.

The worst thing is that young girls have now started following this trend which is not good at all.

you are so right babe its a sheep mentality..... personally i think that so called celebrities like victoria beckham, paris hilton etc and the like arent worth a flying f*ck..... they are just an irrelevance.... if that.





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I'm bigger than a size 16 by loads and does it bother me? nope not a jot.

I have the confidence to see past the packaging and into the contents but others don't. To me it's them with the problem not me - I'm comfortable with the way I look, I eat more or less what I please and am contented with who I am. How many skinny girls can say that? lol

Hi its pleasing to see something I have known for a while - some men like bigger women. Why? cos there is more us to enjoy!!!!!!

That's my excuse and Im sticking to it. I dont want to be thinner necessarily but I would like to be more toned so if there are any over 45 athletic loving male out there who fancies the huuuuuuuuuuuuge challenge of licking me into shape (and I dont mean that as an innuendo guys ...steady lads) get in touch

(did I say I like toned men? ... I didn't? ..... damn me perhaps I should have!!!!!)

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I do respect myself I respect the massive journey I have made to get where I am today, despite the inordinate number of obstacles that have been placed in my path. In addition I respect people unconditionally in the initial stages ...until they demonstrate a bigotry (sic) that makes them no longer worthy of my respect.

Its simple I choose not to judge people initially - I wait for them to shine or not before I make any judgements....... and size or lack of it incidentally because very slim people might just be judged badly too doesnt come into the equation

put the fu**er to the rogue

Mm had a quick skim through this topic,and it pretty much covers what most guys think but normally Im sorry to say women dont believe us.
Guys do tend to prefer women who dont diet themselves to a stick.We like women to be women.Women who arent afraid to have some cake and indulge in chips with lots of mayo on top.
The normal image of stick thin women is marketed by fashion magazines,normally edited and marketed by women and gay men.And neither, judging by the craze for size 0, appears to have any idea what most men desire.
Of course being big doesnt mean its a sit on your arse and eat what you like card.Indulging your desires comes at a price.The price is respecting your body by putting in the work to counter to many pies.Becasue big is beautiful but plain flabby is just un attractive.
Men and women are guilty of letting themselves go in this department.Men with over hanging beer guts,women who arent teenagers trying to fit into crop tops and hipster jeans.The image is one not easily forgotten,and surely a timely reminder for all concerned to respect and improve the body their lucky enough to own.

yeah agreed cellery sticks dont cut it, but that dont mean you have to completely go extreme with it, lol.