Hey all. Do you ever wonder why guys feel that strange feeling of uncomfort the morning after love. A girl recently pointed it out to me, and she was right. Its like I feel guilty, or maybe its because I suffer from commitment phobia and don't want to lead her on, in which case it's an act of kindness, no? She said it's just rude and ****ing immature. Anyway just back from a yr in Oz where hostel romps were the norm, followed by awkward hellos the following morning. I think men suffer from this more. Trying to get some kind of balance going at the mo, and looking to get a few decent relationship conversations started. The next won't be as long, I promise.

The morning after...
Firstly the night before! Target for the male is put as much liquid in her and on her "squirt till you can’t". Target for the female (no matter how she hides it) she wants "affection" hence the regular look into your eyes if during awkward styles, while he bangs away!

So all done, male got his shopping basket emptied. He feels drained and shamed "what have I just done" And because there is no commitment like marriage, he walks away.
In fact he begins to see fault in her, she’s this or that and drops her like a rock. He hardly can see any good in her apart as a love item, that’s only when his shopping basket gets filled up again, and thats the problem.

On the other hand the female didn’t just have a "rumble in the jungle" emotions were attached (unless if you are not female) and she tends to want another session not because she wants love but her emotion is rising.

The male don’t want that because if he were to eventually consider commitment like marriage, he has already eaten the apple nothing really left to bite.

So next morning it’s like the whole world on the male's shoulder, "what is wrong with me" like I just made some atrocity or evil or sin.

It’s all because there is no commitment. He feels more used than the woman. He would prefer to wake up the next morning and comfortable look at the female as wife and say “thanks for the night, May I get you breakfast?” His shopping basket gets filled up quickly!