I have a very close male friend and we've been talking about threesomes.....he's had them in the past but says his small circle of adventurous friends have ended up married or moved away etc etc

I would really be up for the idea of a threesome and having a browse online sooo many people to seem to have the same ideas, it appears to be a popular "fantasy" (are we all just following the herd because its whats deemed sexy?)

I cant help but wonder, do people only have 3somes with people they know? Or do people somehow manage to find strangers to join them......does this work?

Just an excuse for peeps to ramble thoughts, feelings, comments and ideas on threesomes. It can be as good/bad/ugly as you want folks

Thought i'd try and strike up a convo thats not about a teen boy jerking off on msn?! lol

I think it's really just like a lot of things in life, most people talk the talk but can't walk the walk.

its not like alot of things in life at all..in fact its somethin that should be thought threw before doin anything you might regret later..I'v had a 3some more than once but then im not married or wouldnt involve myself in a married couples fantasy..I dont think its possible from past experiance to be friends or lovers with either of the people that r also involved...keep it simple n have a one off

I have had couple of three somes few years back with people i know, didn't cause probs though we still all good mates.

As long as you feel happy trying it I would say "Go for it" as you don't want to live life saying "What if"!
Good Luck with your quest

Andy x

I tried it once, seemed fun at the time but i was only 18? Now, at 28?? Come on, im way past that rubbish??!! Its abit like a crazy theme park ride i guess, ok to try it once if you really want to, and you might even enjoy it, but you dont always need to do it again!
i would say this though, my experience was with friends and not my partner, or anyone elses partners. Plus, there was no 'bi' stuff involved either. Therefore it really was silly no strings fun. its when you involve your nearest n dearest i imagine it can get messy! Anyway, dont do it just because everyone else says they are, isnt social conditioning a m**thaf**ka?

I had a 3sum with a really good mate and a girl we met. I'm not into men so there was no bi contact but in terms of the situation we were both totally comfortable with it and would do it again. She said she had a great time and we were all laid back about it.

I'd love to have a MFF 3sum. Anyone who says that is just because I want my life to resemble a porno is full of shit - it's purely because sex with one girl is amazing, watching girl girl turns me on and so sex with 2 girls at the same time with the possibility of watching 2 girls together is obviously going to be a hit.

I say if you feel comfortable with the people you choose then just go for it. Maybe do what I did and make one a mate and one someone you don't really know

I would genuinely love a threesome, a girl-guy-girl one, but there are a lot of issues. For example, if I was dating someone, I highly doubt that he'd be the guy because I'd get horrifically jealous, and it's a tough situation to handle, there's not a lot of info on threesome etiquette out there. However, if a friend approached me and asked, or a couple did, or me and a close mate (male or female) went on the pull I'd be well up for it. If it was two guys and me, though, no holds barred.

3soms!!! niceeeeeee
what the hell are you waiting for girls.... just teasing, that is a fantasy but i agree there would be issues if it was with a partner, unless you met them under them circumstances!

from danny84: I'd love to have a MFF 3sum. Anyone who says that is just because I want my life to resemble a porno is full of shit - it's purely because sex with one girl is amazing, watching girl girl turns me on and so sex with 2 girls at the same time with the possibility of watching 2 girls together is obviously going to be a hit.

****** SO TRUE ******