ive always been a bit of a shy guy myself, jst the fear of rejection penatrates on my mind anytime i walk up to a girl, and the stutering doesnt help either lol, i just wanted to get women's oppinions on....

1)how a guy cud talk to a girl at a club and keep the convo going, without her signaling her m8 to escape lol, yes i knw about that trick.

2)why cant women ever walk up 2 a guy in a club?


any posts from any1 wud be great, thankz

I'm not 100% sure but I think it might be the kind of clubs you go to. I have girls walk up to me and introduce them selves to me all the time in clubs. I am no Brad Pit and I don't have a great deal of confidence either but they see me enjoying myself because I am there for the music and so are they. I think if you go to a meat market where the main purpose of the club is to pick up rather than enjoy the music then they can be very stand offish.

Clubs are shite places to meet women anyway unless all you're looking for is a one night stand.

No I totally disagree. I go to clubs where 90% of the people in there are there for the music. When you have everyone on the same level like that its a great place to meet people, make friends and meet girls. Plus there is always a chillout going on some where after. God I miss Turnmills

love to no where u go!
i always end up in shit holes! x

I always talk to guys in clubs n most of the time i make the first move..maybe ur just giving off the wrong vibes n not using the right body language

Hi. It sounds like you're already aware enough of what you need to work on! Work on your confidence, and practice approaching women more confidently. Best to confront this fear head-on, you'll quickly realise its not nearly as difficult as you might imagine.

hey, I am afraid I am such a girl who is guilty of not approcahing a man! It is just far too embarrassing and I cannot handle the fear of rejection!

I have a really beautiful bunch of friends who you would think would ooze confidence but they, like me would not approach a guy!!