I have to say i thought it would be alot easier to find a date than it actually is.

Where am i going wrong?

You & me both but then you have only been on here just over a week....look at me nearly 2 years Not sure your doing anything wrong babe.....just aint happening

You may not have realised it, but there are way more men on this site than women.
Which means that the ladies get to cherry pick the most charming, illegible and amusing lucky few.
It's also probably the same select group of virtual alpha's that get most of the interest.
Does that sound cynical?
Don't mean it to be!

If you want to meet someone, chat message them here on the forums, and you'll eventually strike up a connection with sumbady.

I've only ever met one flirtboxer in over a year on the site, but is was worth the wait! ( you know who you are! )

I've been here ages like LV and have met a few men from here and other sites, but I find the whole thing a bit of a juggling act because if you just message and reply to one person at a time, and then they're just stringing you along, you've wasted times to be involved with others who are interested. Yet if you start seeing someone and it's early days, you're not quite available yet you may want to still be communicating with others 'cos you might be free again very soon..... so are you in a relationship or not???
I seem to be coming unstuck because I've been trying to communicate with men who contact me as 'friends' because I don't feel free at the moment, and they all want to be on my msn straight away and I don't want that so quickly.
In reality, most of the men that get you on msn are just wanting 'love shows' the lovely ones are few and far between.