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17.01.2008, 16:11 quote

sexyboo4444
sexyboo4444 Joined: 13 Jan 2008 Posts: 2 Location: United Kingdom, England, Derbyshire
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I really like this guy from liverpool he is actually an ex boyfriend and we went out for only 2 months when I was only 17 and he was 24 recently we got back in touch and i went to see him we had a great time and after a weekend of fun (in the bedroom and out) he said he would really like to see me again.Anyway i have just come back from malaga with a friend and have spoken to him once when he said we will have to arrange meeting up again but since then (monday) i have not heard a thing Crying or Very sad was hoping to see him this weekend! feelin used now like he is just messin me about. even though he said he was ready to settle down and hoped that i could be the one Sad please help Sad

 

28.06.2008, 10:40 quote

morrishoudini
morrishoudini Joined: 20 Jun 2008 Posts: 37 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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Firstly, does he have a reason that he couldn't contact you? A family emergency? Work? etc etc
You may feel like you are being used but there may well be a valid reason.

I'm not sticking up for him because i'm male, i'm just pointing out that not all men are just out to use or upset women.

However, is he the sort of guy that would do that?
Personally, i think you should contact him again and clarify the situation.

Follow your heart, and if you feel that it is all wrong, then maybe he isn't the one.

 

28.06.2008, 20:14 quote

phil6971
phil6971 Joined: 19 Jun 2008 Posts: 8 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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give him the boot hes a waste of time UT

 

04.05.2009, 15:52 quote

lowlander00
Joined: 12 Feb 2009 Posts: 47 Location: United Kingdom, ,
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I'd just say that men's timescales don't always work the same as womens & saying we should meet up again doesn't necessarily mean next weekend. To me him saying 'will have to arrange meeting up again' sounds like keeping options open for some unspecified time in the future, otherwise he'd've just arranged something more specific.

 

03.06.2009, 21:02 quote

howser10661
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Hi again ur 19 right im 31 im seeing a young lady a year younger than you and im not thinking about settling down you should enjoy urself while ur young and ive got 2 say u are a vry pretty im sure lots of guys like u and remeber theres plenty more fish in the sea billons too 1 perfetic guy not sure thats how u spell it but yer dont worry he is out there looking for u as u are looking for him

 
 
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