I'm a married guy in Derbyshire looking for something physical. Due to long term issues that side of the marriage has faded but the rest is fine!

I'm not looking to leave my wife - I just want to feel wanted in "that" way.

I'm looking for a fun woman, about my own age who has similar wants and needs to my own, nothing more. I enjoy a laugh and more serious conversation too.

I enjoy kissing and cuddling too, I'm not just after a quick bang and then a quick escape!

I'm not looking for a one night stand, but at the same time I'm not after anything that will lead to developments further along the road...

i hope no one actualy says yes to this i think your disgusting

hmmm maybe the question here is, does the wife know and consent to some aspects being fullfilled elsewhere? If yes then no one can judge, as every relationship is different and no one knows both sides. I personally for one, think well at least he is being up front and honest.

I actually sympathise with you (not pity) as was in a similar situation to yourself. Was with someone for five years and loved him to bits,wanted to spend my life with him, but there was just absolutely no love life. He seemed to be ok with that, but it was important to me. I didn't go looking for someone else, but just found myself wanting to feel wanted rather than just a bit of random fun. But then I got found out, and it doesn't hit you what you have done until you see that person you care about being so hurt. There is no easy answer....at least you have been completely honest on here with exactly what you are after, and asyou say, you are not looking to be judged, and like all propositions on here they don'tsuit everyone! Good luck with things x