Its just a way of you not facing the truth, the truth is hard to accept.

Its like somone who smokes saying, oh I enjoy it, Ive got every right to smoke, its the only pleasure Ive got in life etc.. ...

You aren't exactly perfect, mate.[/quote]

I never said I was,, anybody who has to go on the net to look for a date has some problems, either with appearance or personality

YUK,,
People that size defintely have problems and are unhealthy, people who are fat are lazy, eat too much, sit down for too long and have no pride in their appearance or concern about their health, ...