Why cant people , when they join, put up a photo of themselves? I know it may seem shallow but it is good to see people that you are messaging. It's not the most important thing but physical attraction plays a part.

Some people may have valid reasons for not wanting their piccies up. For instance may work in schools and don't want any of the schoolkids seeing them etc so they dont take the piss. Others may not know how to...And then yep there will be some who think that people may be scared off if they put a piccie up. Totally believe there are others though with less than genuine reasons too (like being married) but until you get to know someone then you wont actually know their reasons to be able to judge.

Hope that helps

I think if more people photographed as well as you do Debbie, they'd all have pics!

I can't - kids do look through this and I don't want them to see their dad! Not cause I am ashamed, I do take a good photo, but, their friend s would tease them!
Would email one or provide a link to a another location though!

Peopla have a Right not to post their photos, as it their Right to Privacy

Also there are alot of resreachers, fakers, player (men & women), perverts aorunsd thses sites, & a lot of mebers like myself need to suss out the genuine people form motherwise

Lastly, My profile is quit detailed, & it the personality you have a relationship with, not a picture

Dear Debby,

Delightfully said about the Pics. Yours is tres groovy. Any guys without a pic will now be regarded as wearing strange macs, and biting children in the real world.May I now present my mush for your approval, and comment that you've never seen me in Crimewatch. Ta Muchly......x

Really, why join at dating site and not put up a pic??? Maybe I'm a bit shallow, but physical attraction means a hell of a lot too me!!!

I tend to agree with laura on this one. Chatting in stuff is one thing but psyical attraction is a must. Im annoyed that the watermark flirtbox puts on there ruins my glorious pictures. Its like defaming art or smuding the mona lisa.